Content warning: This story discusses domestic and family violence.
Doris Jordi is an energetic dancer, avid traveller and vibrant woman who is proud to hold a 10-year domestic violence (DV) order as well as to be named a ‘Redcliffe Inspirational Woman’ by Kerri-Anne Dooley MP.
Hoping to empower others, Doris does not shy away from sharing her story of surviving a 20-year marriage marked by domestic violence, during which she feared for her life.
According to Doris, the abuse finally came to an end when she was overcome with fear after finding a gun in her home and she alerted emergency services, with paramedics arriving at her property.
“The main obstacle was fear, as I was always put down and told what goes on in the house stays in the house,” Doris said.
It was concern for her dog’s safety, breast cancer treatment and recovery, and ongoing physical and psychological abuse that kept her in a relationship she wished she had left much sooner.
Advocating for Stronger Protections
Doris said surviving domestic violence exposed her to both the strengths and shortcomings of police, legal and support systems, prompting her to advocate for greater DV awareness and stronger protections.
“I have tried to engage the police and anyone who will listen, even met and sent details to a senator regarding Domestic Violence (DVO) protection when flying or on a cruise ship because as soon as you leave our shores, you lose any DVO protection,” she said.
Doris said anyone experiencing DV should reach out to the police, courts, counselling and even friends, and that police could provide DV kits, while she also advised making your own preparations.
“Make sure you have all your essential documents, passport, mobile phone, spare house keys, and anything like that somewhere safe in case you have to leave in a hurry,” she said.
“It is very important to stay positive and believe that there is help for you and this situation should not and does not have to continue.”
Doris frequently talks with others who have or do experience DV, and she said, “If you can help just one life – it helps.”
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic or family violence or is using abusive behaviour and wants help to change, support is available through 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) or DVConnect Womensline (1800 811 811) and Mensline (1800 600 636).
In an emergency, call 000.
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